So this is going to be my last entry. When I started writing in this journal, I didn't really expect anyone to read it. The number of views that I did get encouraged me to write more. Then the journal became less about my life and more about letting other people know the pros and cons of my decisions and some advice on the side. Not only about things I experience at school or home, but stuff on gaia too. I met some pretty messed up people. Some afraid of being alone, some conceited, some unreliable, and, the worst kind, some that just leave you behind when you need them the most. You can't really change a person easily unless you have a huge impact on them. So, me telling people that they hurt me or made me feel bad probably isn't going to matter. Nothing really matters. Worry about yourself and the ones you love. And if the ones you love don't love you back, that's okay. Keep loving them until your heart says F*** it! Ladies, if you're looking for love, don't. It will come to you when you least expect it, I guess (coming from someone that doesn't really believe in love) Ladies that aren't looking for love, I can't help but to have more respect for you. Boys, don't take advantage of a women's love. Be real with her. If you don't like her, don't lead her on. If you do like her, take a chance. Tell her how you feel. You might get some good results. Men, thank you for being mature, admiring men. You know who you are. Although, I'm not really sure if ditching your friends for your gf/bf is okay or not. Some people agree with it, other people don't. its about 50/50. So no input on that from me. Love your friends. Don't leave your friends behind. True friends stick together through the worst of times. I haven't left anyone yet. I know there are times when you think you won't be able to stand someone anymore. And you're just like "You know what, I'm done with you!" and you never speak to them again. I had a case like that. But that certain someone lied to me about numerous things. I'm not even sure if I really knew anything about them. So that was where i thought I should draw the line. Don't let anyone neglect your friendship. A scenario I hear a lot is that a friend might be letting out their feelings a lot. Now, I don't see anything wrong with that. They're your friend. They trust you enough to talk to you about things they aren't comfortable with. Its a sign of trust. Remember that the next time someone is venting. I understand that people can find it annoying, but don't lose your cool and say "That's your problem, not mine." or "Stop complaining to me, ugh!" or somewhere along those phrases. Try to help for awhile. If you feel like your advice or anyone else's advice hasn't helped, politely say that you've done all you can for that situation and that you don't want to hear about it anymore. (I've done it! It works!) If you need to vent, and you feel like your friends won't listen or won't care, you probably need some new friends. Strangers. Treating someone you don't know nicely can be hard, but give it a shot. Why be rude when its not necessary? Is it ever necessary? Maybe, maybe not. That's something for you to decide. I know everyone has heard someone in their life say "Be the bigger person." but no one ever follows that. Some people don't like to look weak in front of their friends so they instigate fights or whatever but, you just look like a reckless fool when you do things like that. Its not attractive, its not cool. Actually try to be the bigger person. And if you're one of those people that are like "Man, I should have punched that guy." after some kind of altercation, then I guess you can't really be the bigger person now, can you? Just be careful. There are some crazy people out there. Don't hurt others. Don't hurt yourself. That's about all I can tell you. I really enjoyed sharing my thoughts to the people that were interested.
Be respectful.
Be reasonable.
Be unique.
Be you. (I cannot stress that enough)
I love you all...
-Kat =^,^=
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