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Hey what's up all I just wanted to express how I feel about one particular thing. Girls. I love girls aren't they just god's gift to us men? Yeah they're special all right but I just can't get over one thing about that them that have recently caught my eye. I look back and I noticed that it isn't just me it has happened to several guys all over.... just about everywhere. They are sweet things that lead us in; all we see is just a pretty smile saying hey there. We see her wink and we go over trying to chit chat and maybe pick up a number. She leads us on making us feel like we got this in the bag so the moment is right the planets have alined and you ask her in some way or form “Hey babe you wanna be my lovely lady?” to your horror you realize you have been played as she looks at you with sadness, disgust, or a combination of the two. From there they give you one of three possible responses the first is the, I already have a boyfriend. From there the guy either comes seemingly out of bow where to take hold of his catch and rub it in your face with mushy talk a hug and a kiss to show she belongs to him. The other outcome is the, oh sorry I’m not interested in you, basically she’s saying piss off. Then there is the dreaded, oh things are complicated. That by far is the worst for at those words we think hey we still have a shot at this so what do us typical guys do we sit and cling to her. We talk to her trying to be the good friend and help her get through it all. Eventually we think yeah we’re top dog right when a whole mess load of I love you's kissing and hugging go through with everyone else but you. So much for top dog eh. Once more we are played left to use are most favorite phrase. We look at the ground shake our head and say, “Damn” usually followed by an “Unbelievable”. This takes me back to my old saying that girls are flowers. They are delicate plants that must be treated with tenderness and care before they bloom. However what are the guys? We are the unsuspecting insect that flies into the welcoming mouth of a Venus flytrap. Yeah all girls are flowers but which flower are they?