I have a sister, and I've known it all my life. But I've never gotten to really meet her or anything because when my mom had her, she was only 16, and my mom already had me when she was 13. So my mom was too young to keep us both so she had to give my sister up or both of us. The reason specifically my sister is because she had a medical problem with her legs. So my mom gave my sister up.
Now 14 years later, my sister contacted my family and then finally contacted my mom. So I got home from school one day and my mom was on the phone with her. So now we finally have contact with her once again. I'm glad we finally have her back in our lives.
Though now, everything that comes out of my mom's mouth is something about my sister. And it's beginning to get on my nerves. I know she's excited and happy and all but she's sort of making me feel like I'm not really wanted much. When ever my mom talks about me, she always has something bad to say for some reason.
Later on I was on AIM with my sister and I decided to ask her about some things. Turns out she's not a virgin since 13, she's dating a 19 y/o man, she skips school all the time, she doesn't make good grades because she doesn't care, she has no hobbies, she drinks, and goes to adult parties with her boyfriend where the people there do drugs. The horrible thing is that her step parents know she's doing all that, but yet they don't care. They allow her to do whatever she wants.
My mom gives me talks all the time about sex and stuff. Yet I'm 17 and I've never drank, had sex, done drugs, and I always get As and Bs in school and I never stay out all night at parties I'm not even supposed to be apart of. But it's really my sister who should have had those talks given to her all these years. Not me, because I'm not the horrible daughter here. I wish my mom would show me some appreciation. A ton of parents dream of having teen kids like me, yet my mom doesn't seem to know how lucky she is.
I just wish my mom wouldn't be so harsh on me now that it turns out I was the one who didn't deserve all the discipline I've gotten over the years.
I wish there was a way though I could get my sister to change her ways. Start getting serious about school and making some good grades, and quit skipping and go out with someone more her age. A 19 year old man isn't with a 14 year old kid unless he's getting something out of it. Which I think is the only reason why she's having sex with him, because she's probably afraid he'll leave her if he doesn't get any. Which is pretty sad. I know that my sister is ashamed of having sex but I don't get why if she's ashamed of it, then why doesn't she just stop. So I'm assuming that she's afraid her boyfriend will leave her if she doesn't do it with him. It makes me feel sorry for her.
If she had lived with us the whole time maybe she'd have turned out a better person than she is right now.
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