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Choosing a girlfriend: This process is done simply by hanging out/spending time with the girl in question and being friends with her. No points or superficial stuff like that. If she fails the test, she'll make a decent friend at least. If she passes, she'll be one of the best pic for a girlfriend by my standards.

Standards: Any girl who can pass the 3 Phases of the test, really! 3nodding

Phase 1) Friendliness: If I can be friends with the girl at a basic level, they already show good qualities of a good girlfriend.

Phase 2) Compatibility/Time: If we can get along, have fun, be jackasses, whatever; that's good too. In all basicness I want to be myself around the girl in question. I don't have to put on extravegent things to entertain her cause we already naturally have fun with each other. Also we have to be able to spend enough time with each other. This is NOT a net relationship.

Phase 3) Affection/Compassion/Trust: Event though we got the close friend thing down, I want to see if a special relationship can be made between us. Not just sex but just pure and simple love. An attraction at a deeper level that the both of us are comfort and trustworthy with. That and both me and the girl in question have to be able to trust each other. That helps too. =3

Final Test(I Love You): The only catch is that the girl in question has to do two things: Look me in the Eye, tell me the three simple words with truth from the heart. That's it blaugh The truth from her eyes and voice is all I need from her to see if she's serious. 3nodding

I don't know if I'm the first 21yr old guy to say this but, i just want love. NOT SEX stressed Too many complications anyway. I'm all for it, but i as long as the girl in question is up for it. sweatdrop