I have figured out that much of the aching guilt I feel about my little cat dying, and the current cat being sick is grief. But since I believe I should be able to do something I feel guilty even when there was nothing I could do.
However, I can still try and use the guilt as a spur to make me do better.
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Prolix
This is where I blurt out random stuff that comes into my head and it is probably self-absorbed trivia.