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My boyfriend... is a villain?

Maybe I've got this all wrong. Maybe my dreams are the enemy after all. Maybe it is the reverse of whatever I dream. If I dream a boy is bad, then he must be good. This boy, I dreamed he was good and now... I think I'm wrong.

Am I wrong?

Gods.

He... feels like such a villain.

There are times where I am with him that I think, why do I bother? I get like this anytime I'm in a relationship though and honestly, it's because I'm wired differently than most guys I date - as are most girls who date boys. I talk so easily about (most) things about me. I open myself up and reveal, reveal reveal. He reveals very rarely and most often it is because I asked a question and he is answering that question.

If a guy likes you, he will try to get to know you.
LIE.

I've had boyfriends before and they all liked me, maybe not all for the best reasons but they all have their own little way of getting to know you. You can get to know someone by simply spending time with them. That is one way to get to know someone. Another way is to actually talk to them but they are both valid ways to get to know someone. See, you can get to know someone without actually talking to them or finding out anything about them. By simply being around them you observe and get used to certain things about them.

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I think that he is a villain now because... he's so normal? I have no idea. He told me some stories about things he has done and they are badass - badboy type of stuff. He also had a very "normal" high school experience where he made friends with a lot of groups and went to parties and what not. However, he had a girlfriend that would do anything for him. That... freaks me out.

I'm not that kind of girl.

I won't do anything.

I won't be his ******** sex friend buddy whatever. I won't do it. I simply won't.

We have had sex once - the other attempt doesn't count - and I got really bored. I'm sure that's just the first time talking but whatever. I guess if I was willing to try again things would be better. Ah well. I'm just not that interested lately.