What men know about women is that we are not strong physically. What women know about most men is that they never realize that we CAN fight dirty. The women at the organization I was a part of learn this and how to fight to THEIR advantage. I was taught to control my emotions to the point of calling on them at any time. I can laugh, be angry, and cry whenever I wish, but there is one problem.....The emotion must already be there for me to use it. My partner was taught the samething but she prefers to not use that technique but a different one, that I shall not mention. This is but a small fact about what happens with the organization I was with till I retired.