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Adventures from the Mind of the Speck
Random stuff that comes to my mind at any given moment, usually pertaining to my brain-children.
Regarding DA Journal entry
So, I posted an entry a little while ago regarding my political and social positions and was told that it seriously hurt many people who read it. On that same note, I did not mean for that message to have me come off as the hateful, close-minded person I was told it made me seem like. Also, it was not an attack on the people/supporters of the ideals mentioned, but was just the positions I took on the issues. As for this, and I say this in the nicest way possible, but just because I will say I don't support or agree with something, does not mean I will go and passionately hate on said issues or supporters of said issues, I think that hate and disagreeing are two totally different issues. Continuing on, I will correct myself on two of the issues I pointed out:

I do not support Barack Obama because I am a conservative Republican, a common reason for those who don't. However, he is our President now and I will support him to an extent, but I still don't agree with some(but not all)of his propositions. Also, I have noticed that a lot of his supporters are very adamant about his work(I mean, who wouldn't after Bush?), but I am still open to the idea that it is possible for mistakes to be made, but that doesn't mean he won't be a bad President.

I do not support gay marriage. I really want to emphasize that I believe love can be between anyone, no matter what their sex, and love comes on different levels, but I believe the kind of love that goes into a marriage ought to be shared between a man and woman. A reson for my thinking this way is I live with two parents who have been married 20+ years, and are still madly in love with each other, which is why I think the man-woman love level in a marriage is so precious. I was also raised with a homosexual aunt who I have heard her talk about her failed relationships where love couldn't even exist anymore.

In closing, these are my opinions, and I hope whoever is reading can respect them. I am not asking you to agree, just please respect that my opinons and thinking may be different, and are not meant to cause anger or demonstrate hatred on any level whatsoever. As for my religion, that discussion causes problems and I am not going to talk about it because no one wants to hear about it. I have learned a lesson, and from now on, when it comes to these issues, I found that it is best not to present my opinion and to keep my mouth shut.

P.S. I apologize to anyone I may have insulted in that entry, and that I respect every side of the arguments.

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  • User Comments: [1]
    StarScarredVixen
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    Fri Nov 14, 2008 @ 12:24am


    I'm really happy that there was an explanation about this whole ordeal. It really helps me and many others understand what exactly your beliefs are.

    Honestly, not everyone here cares that you believe these things. That's what our group of friends is about. Accepting people for who they are and seeing them for the person and not what their beliefs are. You are still my friend because you are a wonderful person and not because I don't believe the same things as you do. Not everyone is going to agree and if everyone chose friends based on what they agreed on, no one would be friends.

    I think the reason why this whole situation got out of hand was simply because of the way the entry was worded. It just held a very sharp aura about it and was really biting. It's not the fact that you stated your beliefs that hurt. Everyone knew your beliefs before they were even written. It was simply the words and the structure of the sentences that really threw everyone for a loop. It was just blunt and very biting.

    Personally, I don't care that you believe these things. As a matter of fact, I understand where you come from when you write and I can relate to them. Don't lose your voice because everyone was jumping on you. That's not what we want. We only wanted a better explanation so that it didn't sound so hurtful and condemning. You know the saying....'Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me." There is nothing more untrue unless you have a really thick skin. (Like Mr. Thomas)

    Keep voicing your opinions and be strong, Julie. Just be careful about what you say. Lord knows, I still have trouble to this day about keeping my opinions heard and helping people understand. Your ability to speak out is admirable and I wish I could do the same thing. Just be careful about how you say it rather than what you say.

    I hope this helps you! Maybe I'll see you over Thanksgiving Break! xp


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