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People who lie Oh my gosh, DON'T EVEN get me started... ON second thought please do! This one girl at my church REALLY ticks me off. It's like, she a match trying to light my fuse. For years she has spread rumars about me and told lies, I'm not even going to get into that. Another thing is, shes the church's little angel of light along with her little sister side kick. Anyway, yeah, they go and do their crap that igves me a bad name. IN CHURCH! Very bad thing... And she tells everyone 'Don't go near Ranah! She did a REALLY REALLY bad thing to me.' (Warning, cursin ahead... wahmbulance ) WHAT THE F**ING HELL! She can't even remeber that the hell she THINKS I did, little fraker. I DON'T HAVE THE DAMN TIME to hear rumars about me, I have enough things to worry about in my life! Kay? Thankies... Soo...Thats my rant please put your comments inside the box, and if you ever think that I'm wrong... PLEASE by all means tell me. Luff, Ranah.

Posted by: Rawr tis Ranah Mon Feb 25, 2008 @ 03:40pm

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pinkcatminht
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Commented on: Mon Feb 25, 2008 @ 05:20pm


	you had my heart, at least for the most part... Ugh, I know people like that. The type of people who constantly spread lies && rumors. if you hear her saying things like that to someone, just kill her with politeness. say, "excuse me, i don't mean to butt in, but i'd appreciate it if next time you'd come talk to me if you have a problem with me. and also, what did i do to you that was so horrible?" when people see you acting so polite to someone who's slandering you, it makes them look like to a total jerk. win-win. pirate ...'cause everybody's gotta die sometime.

Commented on: Mon Feb 25, 2008 @ 05:41pm


	Good advice, only thing is that the only proof I have about her lying is what my friends tell me (There her friends also so she tells them things) and things that she tells me that I find out are not true. I dont want to ruin my friend's friendship by any means. If they get along with her, so be it. And if I tell her she lied, she could just say 'No I didn't say that' But thankies for helping =D

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Rochus-in-rice1
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Commented on: Mon Feb 25, 2008 @ 07:57pm


	Its a tough situation that happens often. You need to tell her that shes in no place to judge what would Jesus do? Judge not yet ye be judged. Attack her with religion, if shes the "churches little angel" by no means should she be spreading rumors about anyone whether true or not it is just wrong. You do this by talking to someone higher than her like her mother or one of the church leaders there, they will know how to take care of that and they should have the higher wisdom that puts her in her place. DO NOT APPROACH HER DIRECTLY!!!! Thats how most people think you solve this type of problem but it will only make it worse. Remember she has an arrogance about her and anything you say could potentially be used against you, or she'll turn something around to make you sound like a hippocrite. Your plan B is completely ignoring it and brush it off as if nothing showing further that your not bothered by what people say when its not true and let people think what they want showing that you are higher than all that gossip, however this is harder to do cause you have to deal with something untrue but when people see it doesn't bother you they will soon forget all about the rumours.

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