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...or, "Don't Expect to See Nikore Much After June."
Random background: I'm staying with my boyfriend's family at the moment. You don't need to know why. I just am.
I was so happy on Thursday when I found out that I wouldn't have to work over the weekend. Aside from some fun last week at my other, non-soulsucking job, things haven't been going my way lately. With the whole weeknd free, I could take off and visit my boyfriend. What better way to get over unneeded stress than spending time with him?
I mentioned it to his mother and asked for a ride to the bus station. She responded with a random fit. See, she's gotten it ni her head that she's my mother, and she's not. She said, "We need to talk to [bf's name here] about this." I found out later that she had had a long conversation with him, about me, and had not included me. My BF told me that the conversation ended with him saying, "Why don't you talk to her about this?". She said some really nasty thigns to me. Apparently, she's putting me through school so I'll be good enough for her son. She also called me shallow.
The next day she acted like she was over her little tantrum. She said that maybe it would be easier if my BF came here instead. I would have had to take a Greyhound bus, and I had a bad experience at a bus station about a year ago. She said that she had been really tired the night before, and she was really just worried about my safety and bla bla bla. I wrote it off as just her having a bad night.
Apparently, she didn't expect my BF to actually take the bus home. She was wrong. The very next day, he was here. She seemd okay at first, but she made another nasty comment to me an hour before he got here. She implied that I don't love him very much, and said that I'm selfish. WTF? I haven't seen my BF for a month and I miss him.
When we got home, my BF was waiting for us. She said hi to him and then went to her room. She spent the entire weekend ignoring us. She barely talked to her son. He was really upset because he thought that his mother would be happy to see him. Quite frankly, I thought so too. She even avoided us Sunday morning. She went home in the middle of the church service because she was mad at us. She never misses church for anything.
I have no idea what the hell is going on with her. She didn't explain to me why she's upset, although she did make sure to insult me a few times. Her husband talked my BF into taking her out to her favorite Indian restaurant in order to cheer her up, and it seemed to work. I don't know what is going on with her, but if she isn't adult enough to tell me about it, I don't care. I finally got that big check I was expecting, so I have enough money to buy a car and move out.
I plan on being out by June, which is the end of the current quarter. I'll have enough money to cover the necessities. However, I do not have a computer, and I won't have the money to buy one. Don't expect to see me on until I can afford one.
 Nikore · Mon Apr 25, 2005 @ 06:13pm · 0 Comments |
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